Always this question of how?

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There is hardly a political discussion on television,
in which there is not an extensive argument about
"How should this be done?" "How should it be financed?"
And we are already in a dilemma.

Last weekend was another Winning Spirit
Weekend and we all learned that this
"how question" often gets in our way. Is it the same for you
at home?
Child asks, partner wants something and then
the "how question" comes up. How am I supposed to finance this,
how is it supposed to work and then perhaps to a lesser extent
the "who" question, who is supposed to finance this,
who is supposed to do this?

In the last blog - What world do you live in -
I also wrote about the question I was asked:
How can you....

How, How, How, I like_repeat it so often,
because may it become totally conscious,
should at best introduce the second question,
which comes into our heads.

What is not discussed enough? What about
a detailed political discussion
about what we would like, what we really want.
What do we want for the future? Would it be good, for example,
if the "poor" had better financial education and
built up a financial cushion with shares?
What if we first had the question, do we
want it, do we think it's good, before we come to the
"how question".

Words and actions are not always just about
what do I see on the surface.
If I hold the door open for someone, no one can see
whether it is politeness or "kissing ass".
My intention decides.

The intention, the energy that underlies a question
is more important than the choice of words.
The classic "how" question is thus linked to the
energy does not go to should not go.

We often instinctively react to the energy of our
counterpart, but then stick to
the words in the discussion. That always backfires.

Only when we clarify what is really important to us and then agree
on what we want together will it be easy for
to answer the meaningful "how" question.
But then with the intention of achieving the desired
goal.

The above contains Einstein's wisdom: The mind,
which created the problem, cannot solve it.

The mind that asks the How question regularly comes from
the level of the problem and cannot find the solution.
Only with the willingness to go to another level of consciousness
do good solutions come. Incidentally, usually with greater ease.

Because dealing with the question: "What do we
actually really want?" gives us the chance to go to a meta-level,
to a different level of consciousness.

So, what was that again?
What do you really want?

Next Saturday, October 2, is Winspiration Day.

What do you want to do on this day?
What do you want to think on this day?

What will you do - for yourself?

Sincerely

Wolfgang Sonnenburg

winning for life

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