I took this photo from my apartment in Gibraltar. You can see Gibraltar in the foreground, Spain opposite and Africa on the horizon to the left.
My 12 years in Gibraltar have taught me a lot. This city is a multi-cultural place. Especially after 9/11 with Muslim neighbors, I was able to discover many inner dressings about other cultures. I used to think that I could make decisions easily and clearly, that I could use my intellect and free will, but during this time I became very aware of the deep programming that was responsible for my world view.
Recognizing this meant that I could no longer decide right or wrong. I could only decide, decide successfully, because there is no right/wrong.
What is the basic axiom on which your world view is based? Do you know it? About it you can decidethe rest is a consistent continuation of the basic belief. A metaphor made this clear to me. A classic lifeboat
A couple, two children and the man's mother are sitting in a lifeboat. On the high seas and with no land in sight , they realize that the boat will not carry them all. One person has to go overboard or they will all sink. What decision will the man make? Will it be different if it is a European or an Asian?
How would you decide? Let everyone go under? Out of fear of making a decision or out of a supposed sense of justice?
The classic solution is for the European to let the mother go overboard, because she has already lived most of her life. The Asian is more likely to part with his wife or children, because they could be replaced, but the mother is unique. The solution also involves the fact that we in the West tend to regard old age as unworthy and repress it, whereas in Asia, appreciation of older people plays a much greater role.
I take this example to illustrate: if we are not aware of the cultural core belief, we would believe we are free to decide, but we are only consistently following our cultural imprint.
This also makes it easier to understand why people say that traveling educates! We get to know other basic ideas and also learn that they can work wonderfully and that there can be happy people even with other axioms. Sometimes others are even happier for this very reason.
An entrepreneur who has the axiom that people are fundamentally lazy and need to be driven builds a different corporate structure than the one who believes that people are trustworthy and always go out in force when the environment allows it.
It is often said that the universe does not know right or wrong, good or evil. So let's talk about what is beneficial and what is detrimental to the desired result.
The most important part of my consulting work is not to provide the "right" answer, but to uncover the core beliefs with my clients and restore their freedom of choice. From this freedom and the clarity of the truly desired outcome (for the latter we sometimes need 1-2 days of uncovering work), an infinite number of options then arise for shaping a happy and successful life.
Then come the real decisions. Unfortunately, most of us have never learned what a real decision is and how to make it sensibly.
But if that is clear, then you can be successful in all areas of life. In material terms, I was able to earn a lot of money in the stock market, with real estate and in other business areas. Millions! In the book Basic Millionaire Spirit, I set out some principles for this.
Freedom from attachments (Buddha mostly referred to personal suffering) brings joy of life and enables healthy bodies and finances in a way I hardly thought possible before realizing or being able to live it.
Es ist schon eigenartig, dass wir so viel für möglich halten, aber nicht dass alle unsere eigenen Lebensbereiche von Erfolg gekrönt sein können und dürfen. “Fahren” doch so viele durchs Leben mit einem Auto, bei dem nicht alle Reifen gleich optimal aufgepumpt sind. Angst dominiert und damit ist keine wirkliche Freiheit gegeben. Keine echte Entscheidungs-Freiheit!
The more we step out of fear and into our true power, the more we achieve that purpose-driven living and purpose-driven profit become the culture of the future . The entrepreneurs I advise in this regard are not only enjoying new personal power, but are also shaping a new corporate culture. The transition to this is sometimes still fraught with doubt in the team (in our body cells). Two fields! Still stuck?
The old energy field is naturally stronger than the new one at the beginning. That's why the unconscious "field visitors" go back and forth. And we all know that back and forth drains the battery. With the right attitude, which my clients bring with them (otherwise they wouldn't want the coaching), all the energy is available for the future field. Success becomes easy. Success is the new habit.
Success is the new freedom!
I'm hardly doing any open workshops or seminars at the moment. Quintessenz with Dr. Jürgen Karsten (board member of the ETL Group and author of The Mental Principle and Quintessenz - the book that will be published in the fall) is planned. Next year, another The Week for Life, scientific and empirical, self-tested findings "how to materialize from the quantum soup" will be the topics.
That's why I now only offer very individual personal support to a maximum of three people (with a partner if necessary). With PurposeFinding®, life purpose, vision setting and purpose-based business strategies. As a rule, I and partners from my business network are then available for up to 6 months for implementation in private and business life. We want successful implementation!
If this interests you, please send me an e-mail and we'll see if it's a good fit: w.sonnenburg@win-win.ag
You don't just decide whether to send the request now. You "decide" several thousand times a day. Mostly unconsciously, mostly only according to the programming, the core belief. Become aware of what your deep-seated basic axioms are and you can really determine your own life to a much greater extent.
That's what I wish for all of us!
Sincerely
Wolfgang Sonnenburg
winning for life
P.S. You are worth filling your life, your lifetime, with the priorities that are important to you. If you don't do it, someone will fill your time with their priorities. If you are ready to consistently optimize your decision-making skills and thus significantly increase your quality of life and productivity, then perhaps it would be a good idea for us to work together for 6 months. A maximum of 3 people (possibly with a partner; the 3 are coached individually) can benefit from this. Contact us here: w.sonnenburg@win-win.ag for this prime coaching or b.lay@win-win.ag for all information.
